Stop dating wrong guys
Perhaps you had an unstable male figure in your life as a child, or your first relationship was one that left you hurt and wounded.
If there isn’t a foundation of love, respect and commitment with the person you’re dating, giving more and doing nice things will not cause them to love you more, it’ll only result in you becoming increasingly attached.
If you’re someone who keeps getting curved to absolute hell by people who seemed to like you: you gotta read this. Because you’re a shiny star and it’s time you started acting like it. I don’t know if who you just went on a date with is indeed the love of your life. But being with a person who treats you like you’re a liability whilst you consistently show up for them is even worse.
If you’re someone who loves reading even very stupid words, well then hell, you really must read this. So here’s how to stop making terrible dating mistakes. I don’t know if you’ll get married and buy a Fiat Punto. It’s just easy to forget that when it’s been 109 days since you last had sex and you did an audible moan this morning when the bus driver brushed your hand giving you your change.
As a person who goes on maybe one date every two months let me just say this: dating is stupid and I hate it. Stop prioritising everything that isn’t kindness and emotional support and being a decent partner and just see what happens. What it’s not for is acrimony and interpersonal struggles and constantly feeling let down.
But also let me say this: it’s very good and why the hell not. It’s not fair on you, it’s not fair on them, and it’s definitely not fair on me.